“You’re fine” can be one of the most dangerous phrases a person hears when their body is clearly struggling.
I’m joined by Charlotte Phelps, founder of The Alchemy of Being (https://thealchemyofbeing.me/) , to unpack her rise-up story from high-achieving banking life in London to a health crisis that culminates in a terrifying warning: her gut may rupture within weeks. What follows is not a neat wellness slogan, but a grounded, human account of what it takes to keep pushing for answers when symptoms are real and tests keep landing in the “normal range”.
We talk about the long build-up: insomnia, hives, digestive breakdown, pain, and the quiet stress of managing your life around your body. Charlotte shares how an unconventional biofeedback session points to a specific parasite that traditional routes miss, and how functional medicine testing helps her finally understand the gut health, hormone health, thyroid and adrenal stress connection behind what she’s experiencing.
Alongside the medical journey, we explore the emotional reality of overachievement, the limiting belief of “not good enough”, and why a crisis often becomes the moment we finally choose ourselves.
We also get practical and philosophical: why self-advocacy matters, how stress isn’t just “in your head”, why sleep can be more healing than another workout, and how even the wellness world can slip into comparison and one-upmanship.
Charlotte explains what she built with The Alchemy of Being: a curated wellness hub and “wellness wiki” to help people find credible options and a starting point before they hit breaking point.
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What’s one choice you could make today that gives your body a better chance? And if you want to see more of Charlotte and/or explore her fabulous website click this link. (https://thealchemyofbeing.me/)
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This episode reflects my interpretation and awareness-based philosophical perspective, shaped by years of personal experience, training, reading, and research.
It is not medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice and does not replace professional support. The language used is descriptive and reflective, not diagnostic.
Not everyone will resonate with these ideas – and that is completely okay.
You are responsible for your own interpretations, decisions, and the changes you choose to make in your life.
Here is to your success
Love Vicky
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